Ingemar

Ingemar 1966-1998

He worked at the designgroup when I was employed. We were placed at the desks beside each other. He was married and had three kids. My guess is that he was choosen by his wife, not the other way around. I was single at the time.

The only thing in his mind was sex. Having a single woman beside him was probably too much. He was talking sex, sex, and then some more sex. Being single without a partner that made me crazy. I tried to stop this, but he also affected the other guys so it was impossible. This went on for years. He is also, still, that kind of man that needs to be adored by every woman. And having me around turning away was hard.

So there were a constant fight between us. He to take me in, me to stay away. Luckily we did not have to work that much together. I think he would have divorced if I wanted that. He made me create that huge protective wall around me.

Finally I was able to get another job in the cab-department. (But that ended up with Lage coming around, see another post).

After Lage-event I was transferred to the CAD-team. Ingemar heard about it and showed up at my office. I asked him to leave, but then he put his foot in the door so I could not close. He offered me finally, to be friend with him. What the hell. I had been avoiding him for decades. How stupied can men be?

Anyway, with him there were no strange things happening, just his stubborn need for attention that I did not want to give.